So...Why Did That Happen To YOU?


It can be hard sometimes to keep your momentum going when you are constantly striving towards a more successful life.

In my experience...it seems like you sometimes MUST take a couple of steps back in order for you to be in a much better position going forward.

So...don't be disheartened if things don't always go your way. They never always go right for me, either!

Well...they don't go right in the way that I might have wanted them to...but, in hindsight (isn't it a wonderful thing?) the perceived 'setback' usually makes a lot of sense.

Part of the challenge we BOTH face is how we look upon these events.

The easy thing to do is blame this or that...or just put things down to 'bad luck'.

But...you know what?

I've found that, if I REALLY look for the 'message' behind EVERY setback in my life (yes...even the terrible ones)...there is usually something that comes out of it that will shape my future.

Sure...it's not always easy to...but now that I have experienced it for myself on a number of occasions...I now know that it is how I VIEW these setbacks that determines how much impact they have on my life.

One of the rules of this game called life is that EVERYTHING happens BECAUSE of something else...whether due to a decision you made in the past...or to move you towards your future.

Isn't it about time that YOU started to control what happens to YOU by at least THINKING about the lesson in everything that happens to you?

It works for me!